DEAR ABHISHEK, AFTER MEETING WITH MANISHA, HOW WILL YOU FIND YOUR DREAM GIRL NOW?

August 28, 2023 Neeraj Kumar

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#AbhishekMalhan doesn’t know but his 2-month journey with #ManishaRani has now made it very difficult for his future wife or girlfriend because Manisha has set the bar so high.

The kind of love, affection, and care we saw among #Abhisha was so pure that it feels #BBOTT2 was a blockbuster romantic movie or web series which we kept on watching for 2 months.

Immense love, care, and mutual respect for each other are the foundations of any successful relationship. In any good romantic relationship, the girl doesn’t only act as a boy’s girlfriend/wife. From time to time she also acts as a mother, sister, daughter, and a close friend. Similarly, a boy in a relationship also acts as a father, brother, and a good friend other than being the boyfriend/husband of the girl.

In BB’s house, No doubt that Manisha was the best friend and a pillar of strength for Abhishek but from time to time she also acted as his mother by taking care of his food, health, clothes, hair, and everything that a mother does to her 26 years old son. If Alu-Baingan vegetables were cooked in the house which Abhishek doesn’t eat she ensured that like a mother she cooks something else for him and doesn’t allow him to stay hungry. If he was having dengue then she applied hot oil with garlic on his body despite knowing that many people could judge her but a mother never thinks what the world would think, for a mother the only thing that matters is her son’s wellbeing. Like a mother, she was always there to give a head, foot, or back message whenever he was in pain. In the same house, many women said that I am fond of Abhishek like Pooja & Falaq, and some said that they liked Abhishek like Jiya but none of them ever cared if Abhishek was hungry or in pain. It was only Manisha who was always there for him. Who was as selfless as only a mother can be. Always considering Abhishek above herself, ignoring her migraines and headaches Abhishek, was always ready to give her share of food to Abhishek.

From time to time she also acted as a sister who protects her brother at all costs. She acted as a younger sibling with whom Abhishek could play and fight like a child. She acted as an elder sister to always stand in between the fights when Bebika used to get very close to Abhishek so that something wouldn’t happen which allowed Bebika to play women’s cards against Abhishek. Some people might not like comparing with a brother-sister relationship but trust me guys, a good wife plays all the roles in a boy’s life including that of a sister as well.

From time to time, Manisha acted as a little adorable daughter as well with whom Abhishek could get a peaceful moment forgetting all the chaos of the house. A girl who Abhishek would love to pamper, take her into his cuddle, and treat her like a little kid. The way it felt wholesome to see Abhishek wheedle Manisha like a kid when she used to get upset, trust us it would have been a wholesome experience for Abhishek as well. Abhishek was able to have a right over Manisha because Manisha was like a little daughter who was committed to her father and the father felt responsible for protecting that child.

At all times Manisha acted as that best friend and at times as a very loving and caring wife with whom you could share all the things in the world, in front of whom you can show all your vulnerabilities without being judged. Manisha acted as the best friend who would always comfort Abhishek when he needed even without Abhishek saying it. Many times there were a lot of things going into Abhishek’s mind but without even expressing Manisha understood and was there for him. Boys are normally shy and their male ego sometimes stops them from saying openly “I need you, I need a hug” but Manisha always understood without saying it. When Abishek was waiting for his mother in the family week, Manisha realized that he was going to break down so she went there and hugged him. In the first week when Bebika said bad things about Abhishek in the face reading task, Manisha understood that Abhishek felt really bad, when they were sitting alone she said “Tujhe Bura Laga Na?”. It is rare to find a partner who can understand you so well that you don’t even have to speak and she understands what you want and what you need.

It is very well possible that Abhishek never felt any romantic attraction towards Manisha in his conscious mind. It is possible that he may make a decision in his mind in the future where he chooses a girl who looks more beautiful than Manisha, who is more successful than Manisha, or who fits more in his family’s requirements. But trust us, human psychology works in a very complex way. Ideally, we should not compare one individual with another but our mind subconsciously keeps comparing one individual with another. When a boy goes into a relationship, his mind subconsciously keeps comparing the girl with his ex-girlfriend, sister, mother, other friends, and other couples around him and he finds something unique and some good things common in the girl with respect to other individuals who is or has been in his life that makes him fall in love for that girl.

If Abhishek starts dating someone or marries someone immediately without knowing her. Within 6-12 months he might knowingly or unknowingly start comparing the love, care, and selflessness shown by Manisha Rani towards him and at that point, he might start regretting because it would have been too late by then. This would be bad for the girl with whom Abhishek goes into the relationship because no two individuals are the same and she doesn’t deserve to be compared with anyone consciously or unconsciously.

Therefore, we would suggest Abhishek think very well and be 100% sure that there can’t be anything between him and Manisha before deciding to start any relationship with any other girl.

Remember, it is very easy to marry your best friend and make her your wife, it is not that easy to marry anyone and later expect her to be your best friend as well.